National Domestic Violence Awareness Month: Breaking the Cycle of Fear

November 06, 2010

Since 1987, the National Resource Center on Domestic Violence has promoted October as Domestic Violence Awareness Month to unite advocates across the nation in efforts to reduce violence against women and children. The U.S. Congress has recognized the month every year since in light of the fact that one of four American women will be physically or sexually assaulted by a husband or partner during her lifetime.

This year's presidential proclamation in honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month calls domestic violence a "devastating public health crisis," but continues with a positive vision: "We recognize the tremendous progress made in reducing domestic violence, and we recommit to making everyone's home a safe place for them." Events around the country will include memorial observances and concentrate on such issues as teen dating relationships, workplace violence, and the role of health professionals in screening and responding to domestic violence.

The legal implications of domestic violence have changed considerably since times when women were considered chattel and their individual rights were subordinate to the marriage contract. Both men and women who find themselves in need of protection from a spouse or partner's threats, rage and aggression can seek domestic violence protective orders under Virginia law. And while allegations of violence may not have even constituted grounds for divorce a century ago, proof of abuse now has serious implications for child custody determinations and other family law matters.

What Can an Attorney Do to Help?

When domestic situations become unbearable, the first thing potential victims should do is seek refuge for themselves and their children. A trusted friend, a shelter or a hotel are wise options when the fury of an irrational and dangerous person threatens your safety. In the presence of an immediate or imminent threat, do not hesitate to call police.

When you are secure and safe, a wise next step is to consult with a family law attorney about your legal options. Whether the abuser is a friend, relative, domestic partner or spouse, you can quickly obtain a court order that prevents the person from contacting you or visiting your home -- even if the person shares your residence. Looking ahead, a divorce lawyer can explain your rights in the divorce process in situations where the final straw has been broken.

Domestic violence devastates families and casts a pall over communities. We all have a role to play in making sure that home can be a safe place for children and intimidated adults. By informing abuse victims of their rights and options, they can begin to take steps toward independence and safety.

Article provided by Eddy Paul Rice, IV
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