Dealing With Extra Attention After Breast Augmentation

MIAMI, FL, March 29, 2012 (Press-News.org) If you are a woman who has always felt cursed with small breasts, part of your motivation for getting breast augmentation was likely to get more attention from men. But how do you respond if you suddenly suffer from literally an embarrassment of riches?

Ignore Random Catcalls--You will likely get a loft of random male attention on the street. This is annoying, but a fact of life for any pretty girl, and likely you were not a complete stranger to it before. Any time men get together, they are always looking for diversion in the form of an attractive woman, and their catcalls are directed more at their male friends than at you. They're trying to look masculine and trying to get a response from you.

If you give them any response at all, they will be happy and feel rewarded. It's cheap entertainment and gives them something to brag about. And if you respond, it gives them more opportunity to come up with even more degrading propositions or insinuations. Just walk on by at the same pace as if you didn't hear a thing.

Dress for Success--Another side effect of breast augmentation is getting the opportunity to shop for a whole new wardrobe. You may find that outfits that gave you a decent amount of cleavage before now give you too much and make you the object of unwanted attention. Pay especially close attention to your work clothes to make sure none of your outfits now send the wrong signals. You might also want to consider buying a minimize bra to go along with some of your button-up blouses that may gap or stretch at the bustline. In addition, look for specially designed shirts with extra buttons to prevent this phenomenon.

You don't have to completely cover up, but you should make sure you are always dressing professionally.

Be Polite, Firm, and Make Your Point--the hardest situation is when you are getting too much unwanted attention at work or someone you see on a regular basis. This situation cannot go unaddressed, but you have to handle it carefully. If it's a casual acquaintance who keeps hanging around but won't ask you out, you have to bring it up yourself and either go out or let him know you're not interested.

If it's a coworker, you have to handle it extra carefully. Ironically, if you bring it up the wrong way, you may be accused of sexual harassment, so always use your work as a tool to keep the conversation professional while getting the message across. When he starts coming by your workstation, always begin by saying how busy you are. If he doesn't get the point, come back a few times to the message of how much you have to get done. You might also talk about how his always hanging around might look to management, or try to get him to do work that takes him away from your workstation. "It looks like you don't have much to do today. Can you make these copies for me?" conveys a message that most guys should pick up on. If he's thick as a brick, you may have to bring it up to your manager.

Although some of it may be a nuisance, most of the time the extra attention you get after breast augmentation is part of the reward of the procedure, helping you to feel attractive, feminine, and confident in your appearance.

If you are considering breast augmentation in the Miami, Florida area, you can learn more about the procedure at the website of the Weston Center for Aesthetic Medicine and Surgery.

Website: http://www.westonsurgery.com